on relationships

if it's not meant to be then it's not meant to be...

though i may believe that in a way… i believe there are still two most probable reasons why things don't work out between people… it's either HE decided that things will not work out… or SHE decided that things will not work out… i think it's really that simple...

loving someone and having a relationship with someone is of a totally different nature… you may love countless people… you may still love the persons you had relationships in the past… you may still even love the people who make you feel you don't exist… but… having a relationship requires not just love but also a mutual personal decision to be with this someone…

marriage, i think is the highest form of relationship you can have with someone… and it requires a decision by two souls to stick to it no matter what… some say it's hard… some fear it… some detest it because of the thought that they may lose their independence… but i believe, it is more of like having that someone you can be with… someone you can count on… someone who would not mind spending every moment of your lives together… going through all those happy… sad… and special moments that, you know, you will always treasure...

if it's not meant to be then it's not meant to be… not quite… for i think people who said that never really tried…